Results…..Success or …..

It’s results time… so everyone abuzz with “What’s your score?” “Congratulations” and so on…. All gleaming and happy faces, full of joy for all the hard work put in… 90%, 80% scores are the priviliged lot, who enjoy all limelight. But what about those who were not fortunate to get a good score? Are they really not good? do not have the required intelligence? Well, a question long since my school and college days in my mind… I chanced to meet a lot of my school and college mates and realised that many of my friends who have tasted success, never tasted good scores way back then!!!

Success in scores alone is not the measure for a successful life. You may choose any profession, but dedication, focus and determination will help you achieve success. Ofcourse in the end all the material success hardly matters, true success is defined by our understanding the Supreme, the creator. Because in life we may have many tests and exams, but life itself is just one big exam and the result can lead to re-exam or SUCCESS to His Abode!

Success in a friendship or relationship is not controlling someone, but receiving an equal amount of love and affection from the other without your having to ask or worry. Let go of the relationship, leave it free, if it is yours, then it will always be back to you with renewed and stronger bonding. If it was never yours, it will always find a way to slip out.

I have also decided to let go and watch… I sincerely hope Krsna will bring it back……

karmaṇy-evādhikāras te mā phaleṣhu kadāchana
mā karma-phala-hetur bhūr mā te saṅgo ’stvakarmaṇi

You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, nor be attached to inaction.

So, do your duty, study well, work hard and in any relationship, strive to keep it good and well. Never give up…